Unravel Yourself

If you're walking through hell, keep going

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In the 1930s, men’s nipples were just as provocative, shameful and taboo as women’s are now, and men were protesting in much the same way. In 1930, four men went topless to Coney Island and were arrested. In 1935, a flash mob of topless men descended upon Atlantic City, 42 of whom were arrested. Men fought and they were heard, changing not only laws but social consciousness. And by 1936, men’s bare chests were accepted as the norm.

So why is it that 80 years later women can’t seem to achieve the same for their chests? Why can’t a mother proudly breastfeed her child in public without feeling sexualized? why is a 17-year-old girl being asked to leave her own prom because a group of fathers find her too provocative?

[…] I am not trying to argue for mandatory toplessness, or even bralessness. What I am arguing for is a woman’s right to choose how she represents her body — and to make that choice based on personal desire and not a fear of how people will react to her or how society will judge her. No woman should be made to feel ashamed of her body.

Scout Willis, in XOJane, on Instagram’s nudity policy and why she recently strolled the NYC streets topless. Solid essay all around. I found this piece particularly interesting because I’d never heard about the men’s nipples thing. (via batmansymbol)

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yaelstiel:

#SPN10 COUNDTODWN CHALLENGE | 14 days to go | S08E14

Sam listened to every argument Dean has made, every single word. Then, hours later, when it was his time to talk, gently and beautifully he responded to each one of them. And it wasn’t easy for Dean, but he listened as well, and Sam’s words got through his heart and mind, and he had hope too, that maybe there is, after all, light at the end of this ugly ass tunnel. 

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